This morning I had the Mayor of the Overstrand visit me. The Overstrand Municipal area encompasses an area, from Gansbaai to Rooi Els, with many little villages inbetween, including the one in which I live. Why did she visit me you ask? Well, a few weeks ago I wrote a letter to the Democratic Alliance saying that if our present councillor was to stand again then they would not have my vote.
Following on this the Mayor phoned me asking for an appointment. I mean, me, a nobody in a little town with no clout. Well, I said, yes but I won’t speak to you if you bring the said councillor along. She said he wasn’t aware of this visit and would not be told about it, but as I was clearly unhappy she would want to see me.
We had a bit of bother trying to co-ordinate dates, her diary obviously infinitely fuller than mine but eventually set down a time and date.
So, this morning she arrived, a little ahead of the appointed time, apologetic, for being too early, and saying that she would wait if I was busy! Of course, I wasn’t. My time is my own and I had set the morning aside for her, so in she came, refusing tea as she was combining a visit to me with some other business she had in the town.
What impressed me most though was the friendly, disarming smile and her hand stretched out and saying “Margie? Nicolette.” Well, I grew up in the era when one addressed the Mayor as “Your Worship”. Here I was now on first name terms with the Mayor. Not bad for a nonentity I thought.
We spent over an hour, going over the reasons which had led me to write to the Democratic Alliance, with her listening patiently, explaining a few facts that I wasn’t aware of, yet also agreeing that many of the problems that I had listed were genuine and needed attention.
Then she took a walk with me, up and down the road to see exactly what I was concerned about. She learnt a few facts about our town and I learnt a great deal about how she intended tackling them, and other things.
She was open, revealing details that were not for open discussion and entrusting me with confidential information. I was very impressed.
When she eventually left, we parted good friends. She gave me a hug and a kiss on the cheek and said if she ever found the time, could she pop in again. She thanked me for my time and my openness and said she would read the list I had given to her over the weekend and promised to try to rectify some of the things mentioned.
Well, you know how they say never to trust politicians? Somehow I think this lady is genuine, and that she is not going to let me down. I think she has integrity and a refreshing honesty. I am hoping that she will be able to get some results.
In the meantime, may I wish her luck because I think she is going to need it. I am just an insignificant fish egg in the big pond of life, and yet she was prepared to listen, to talk, to take me into her confidence. I appreciate that and will do what I can to help her should I be called on to do so.
Now if only our councillor could be a little like her....
Postscript
I am running this on both my blogs, because I feel this requires a broader audience. Normally I keep my writing life and my personal life separate but there are always times when one needs to break the rules.